RUSTED ROSE, Bridesmaid flannel shirts, vintage flannels, button down shirts, bridesmaid robes, set of bridesmaid gifts, made to order



  • Details
    Kimonos are out and vintage flannels are in! Cozy cotton flannel shirts are the new trend for getting ready with your squad. This is our Rusted Rose collection featuring blush, rose gold, pink, marsala, and cranberry shades. Your girls will look darling in the photos capturing the moments leading up to your wedding day.

    Our mismatched sets are truly one of a kind. Each shirt is processed with a unique weathered and worn finish creating a distressed aged look. Each set varies and yours will be unique to your choices. You will receive photos during the process and have the opportunity to work directly with designers by providing feedback and requests to create your set to your liking. Every order is confirmed with a photo before shipping.

    -Custom set, made to order based on buyer request
    -Number of shirts in set determined by quantity selected
    -No two shirts in a set are the same.
    -Price is per shirt.
    -Shirts are worn in cotton.
    -100% sourced in USA.
    -Photo confirmation prior to shipping.
    -Processing time is 8-10 weeks.
    -Rush option available for additional fee. Message to request.
    -Shipping via USPS Priority and FEDEX
    -Free standard US shipping on orders of $200 or more.
    *All flannel varies. Vintage shirts may show wear such as fading, pilling, or other minor imperfections. You will never receive junk from The Vintage Vow. We inspect every item for quality and each shirt must meet our high standards.

    -select your shirt size choice
    -select the quantity for that size
    -add to cart
    -repeat for each additional size

    -choose between traditional boyfriend fit or oversized nightshirt style
    -sizing varies slightly by shirt
    -boyfriend fit is sized according to chest measurement
    -for oversized fit order up

    NIGHTSHIRT STYLE: shop will contact you with instructions for sizing

    XS BOYFRIEND: 30-32

    SM BOYFRIEND: 34-36

    MD BOYFRIEND: 38-40

    LG BOYFRIEND: 42-44

    XL BOYFRIEND: 46-48

    2X BOYFRIEND: 50-52

    3X BOYFRIEND: 54-56

    4X BOYFRIEND: 57+

    -hand stitched patches are available as an additional option
    -sewn on patches can be removed later
    -visit the PERSONALIZE IT section of the store to see options

    -All images are actual sets by The Vintage Vow
    -copyright of The Vintage Vow
    Bridal party photo credit: unknown

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  • Shipping & Policies

    Shipping from United States

    Processing time

    8-10 weeks

    Customs and import taxes

    Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

    Payment Options

    Secure options
    • Accepts Etsy gift cards

    Returns & Exchanges

    I gladly accept exchanges

    Just contact me within: 7 days of delivery

    Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

    I don't accept returns or cancellations

    But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

    The following items can't be returned or exchanged

    Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:

    • Custom or personalized orders
    • Perishable products (like food or flowers)
    • Digital downloads
    • Intimate items (for health/hygiene reasons)

    Conditions of return

    Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    RUSH FEE details for RUSH orders

    RUSH FEE is non-refundable and must be approved by shop prior to purchase. Fee is in addition to item and shipping charges. This option is for custom orders needed in less than 4 weeks. Message shop if you need a Rush order.

    Do you offer embroidery or monogram on the shirts? If not, can I have it done elsewhere?

    These are top quality vintage flannels and they are intended to be loved and worn long after the wedding day. In my experience, I have found that your bridal party actually prefers to receive shirts without any kind of label or wording. These are not a "throw away gift" or "one use only gift." Therefore, I do NOT offer any type of embroidery or monogramming.

    If you absolutely must have them personalized or monogrammed you can take them to your local monogramming company and have it done there.

    Do you offer a discount on large quantities?

    The Vintage Vow offers a variety of products at different price points as well as special promotions and/or sales throughout the year. We do not currently offer a discount on quantity or bulk orders. If you are military message me for current offers.

    You are sold out of the color I want. When will you get more in stock?

    Inventory changes all the time. Message the shop to discuss details of your color request. Most requests can be accommodated if given enough time. 10 weeks is a good rule of thumb for the time needed to create a custom request.

    How far in advance should I place an order?

    The sooner you order, the more time there is for communication between the buyer and the designer. If time is limited, so are the choices.

    Can I make changes to my order after I pay?

    Yes, you can make some changes to your order during the process. After a purchase, you can adjust sizing and even color if needed. If shop can accommodate a request it will. It is our goal to provide excellent customer service along with a great product. We want you to love your purchase from The Vintage Vow.

  • Reviews

    I LOVE these shirts! TheVintageVow was wonderful to work with to create the perfect palette for our getting-ready flannels for our wedding, and they were wonderful enough to coordinate a couple of more masculine prints for my 2 bridesmen (one of whom is a Large Tall - and TheVintageVow was able to send the Tall size!) while still keeping with the burgundy-rose-orange color scheme. The flannel quality is exceptional (even better than some of my LL Bean shirts), and they fit extremely well and hold up in the wash. I'd 100% recommend these shirts for any fall/winter/chilly Northern weddings!

    Jessica was so amazing to work with! I sent her a note asking about the process, and she was able to put together my set in one try! They are so wonderful, and I can’t wait for my bride crew to wear them on my big day. I’ll be sure to update with day of photos!

    Jessica was AMAZING!!! She really took the time to make sure that what I was envisioning for the color scheme came out in the shirts. I just received my order and the shirts look SO good. I can not wait to give them to all my girls and wear them while we get ready on my Wedding day in October. Definitely will be posting some pictures via Instagram. :) Thanks Jessica!!