Bridal Party Flannel Shirt, Bridesmaid Button Down Shirts, Wedding Flannels, Made to Order bridesmaid flannel getting ready shirt



  • Details
    Kimono robes are out and cozy vintage flannels are in. Give your girls the gift that keeps on giving. Flannel shirts are something they will actually love and wear again and again.

    These are boyfriend fit for casual comfort and should be worn with bottoms. We recommend favorite jeans, cutoff shorts, or leggings to complete the look. Our mismatched flannel sets are truly one of a kind. Each shirt is processed with a unique weathered and worn finish creating a vintage look and feel. Each shirt varies and yours will be unique to your choices. You will receive photos during the process and have the opportunity to work directly with designers by providing feedback and requests to create your set to your liking. Every order is confirmed with a photo before shipping.

    -Custom sets are made to order based on buyer request
    -Number of shirts in set determined by quantity selected
    -No two shirts in a set are the same.
    -Price is per shirt.
    -Shirts are worn-in cotton.
    -100% sourced in USA.
    -Photo confirmation prior to shipping.
    -Processing time is 8-10 weeks.
    -Rush option available for additional fee. Message to request.
    -Shipping via USPS Priority and FEDEX
    -Free standard US shipping offered on orders of $35 or more
    *All flannel varies. Vintage shirts may show wear such as fading, pilling, or other minor imperfections. Any shirt that does not meet our vintage quality control will either not be used or offered at discount.

    -select your color choice from drop down menu
    -select size choice
    -chose quantity of that color and size
    -add to cart
    -repeat for each size

    -Sizing varies slightly by shirt.
    -NIGHTSHIRT style is longer and quite oversized.
    -Boyfriend Fit are unisex flannel shirts. Use chart below to order boyfriend fit.

    XS BOYFRIEND: 30-32

    SM BOYFRIEND: 34-36

    MD BOYFRIEND: 38-40

    LG BOYFRIEND: 42-44

    XL BOYFRIEND: 46-48

    2X BOYFRIEND: 50-52

    3X BOYFRIEND: 54-56

    4X BOYFRIEND: 57+


    -All images are actual sets by The Vintage Vow
    -Photo credits:
    Photo 1: Jennifer Yarbro Photography
    Photo 2: Chris Carter Photography
    Photo 3: Andrew Austin Photography
    Photo 4: Cotton Collective
    Photo 5: unknown
    Photo 6: unknown
    Photo 7: Jordan Noble at Be Noble Photography
    Photo 8: Jennifer Yarbro Photography
    Photo 9: The Vintage Vow
    Photo 10: The Vintage Vow

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  • Shipping & Policies

    Shipping from United States

    Processing time

    8-10 weeks

    Customs and import taxes

    Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

    Payment Options

    Secure options
    • Accepts Etsy gift cards

    Returns & Exchanges

    I gladly accept exchanges

    Just contact me within: 7 days of delivery

    Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

    I don't accept returns or cancellations

    But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

    The following items can't be returned or exchanged

    Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:

    • Custom or personalized orders
    • Perishable products (like food or flowers)
    • Digital downloads
    • Intimate items (for health/hygiene reasons)

    Conditions of return

    Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    RUSH FEE details for RUSH orders

    RUSH FEE is non-refundable and must be approved by shop prior to purchase. Fee is in addition to item and shipping charges. This option is for custom orders needed in less than 4 weeks. Message shop if you need a Rush order.

    Do you offer embroidery or monogram on the shirts? If not, can I have it done elsewhere?

    These are top quality vintage flannels and they are intended to be loved and worn long after the wedding day. In my experience, I have found that your bridal party actually prefers to receive shirts without any kind of label or wording. These are not a "throw away gift" or "one use only gift." Therefore, I do NOT offer any type of embroidery or monogramming.

    If you absolutely must have them personalized or monogrammed you can take them to your local monogramming company and have it done there.

    Do you offer a discount on large quantities?

    The Vintage Vow offers a variety of products at different price points as well as special promotions and/or sales throughout the year. We do not currently offer a discount on quantity or bulk orders. If you are military message me for current offers.

    You are sold out of the color I want. When will you get more in stock?

    Inventory changes all the time. Message the shop to discuss details of your color request. Most requests can be accommodated if given enough time. 10 weeks is a good rule of thumb for the time needed to create a custom request.

    How far in advance should I place an order?

    The sooner you order, the more time there is for communication between the buyer and the designer. If time is limited, so are the choices.

    Can I make changes to my order after I pay?

    Yes, you can make some changes to your order during the process. After a purchase, you can adjust sizing and even color if needed. If shop can accommodate a request it will. It is our goal to provide excellent customer service along with a great product. We want you to love your purchase from The Vintage Vow.

  • Reviews

    Jessica was amazing to work with and the flannels are of great quality. She folded them, packaged them neatly and even labeled the flannels for me so I could give them to the right bridesmaid/man in my party. I absolutely LOVED how my flannel turned out with the patchwork on the back with my soon-to-be new last name. Thank you so much for everything and I can't wait to give these out and wear them on our wedding day! :)

    Definitely worth the wait! Beautiful flannel shirt...very unique! Thanks 🙏 LeAnn

    I just received my shirts! I ordered 6 for my bridesmaids, two for my flower girls, and one mostly white one for me! They are absolutely beautiful! Top of the line quality, soft, each of them truly are one of a kind! The communication and customer care that Jessica from Vintage Vow showed, was excellent! She kept in contact with me to make sure everything was just what I had visioned for my shirts! I will post a picture after the wedding day (November 3).

    Forever gifts for bridesmaids and mothers. I personally love flannel, I wanted to share the love with my girls. These were perfect for getting ready in the mountains.

    I get married at the end of this month and purchased the shirts for myself and my bridesmaids to get ready in. I purchased the shirts back in mid May and received them in early August. I felt as if waiting three months for flannel button ups is too long. This was after messages to the shop owner about an ETA... I was getting nervous if I was going to receive the shirts. The owner was not prompt in replying. Sometimes I had to message twice before getting a response. That being said, I am happy with the quality of the shirts and am excited to have my girls wear them. I feel like the owner may need to invest in some extra help to assist with timeliness and customer service. I wouldn’t recommend this product to a friend unless there was a change in the management of the shop.