Flannel Fling, Bridesmaid Proposal Gift or Bachelorette Party shirts, vintage flannel shirt, bridal party flannels


Flannel Fling Before The Ring? Get our best deal on boyfriend flannels with this gift option. Choose your size and the message you want on the tag. Seller will hand pick a random vintage flannel. This item does not include color or print requests from buyer. If purchasing multiple, each shirt will be different and will not coordinate by color like our custom and pre-made sets .

Message Choices:
-Flannel Fling
-Will You Be My Bridesmaid?
-Will You Be My Maid of Honor?
-Flannel And Chill?

-Includes: 1 vintage flannel shirt (unisex) + 1 message tag
-Colors and plaids vary
-Shirts are worn in cotton. 100% sourced in USA.
-Price is per shirt.
-This item can take up to 5-7 days to ship.
-Shipping via USPS Priority and FEDEX
*All flannel varies. Shirts may show wear such as fading, pilling, or other minor imperfections.

-The Vintage Vow reserves all rights to the listing images.
-Photos show examples only. You will not receive the shirts in images. You will receive a random selection from shop warehouse.

Shipping from United States

Processing time

3-5 business days

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I don't accept returns, exchanges, or cancellations

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

Frequently Asked Questions

RUSH FEE details for RUSH orders

RUSH FEE is non-refundable and must be approved by shop prior to purchase. Fee is in addition to item and shipping charges. This option is for custom orders needed in less than 4 weeks. Message shop if you need a Rush order.

Do you offer embroidery or monogram on the shirts? If not, can I have it done elsewhere?

These are top quality vintage flannels and they are intended to be loved and worn long after the wedding day. In my experience, I have found that your bridal party actually prefers to receive shirts without any kind of label or wording. These are not a "throw away gift" or "one use only gift." Therefore, I do NOT offer any type of embroidery or monogramming.

If you absolutely must have them personalized or monogrammed you can take them to your local monogramming company and have it done there.

Do you offer a discount on large quantities?

The Vintage Vow offers a variety of products at different price points as well as special promotions and/or sales throughout the year. We do not currently offer a discount on quantity or bulk orders. If you are military message me for current offers.

You are sold out of the color I want. When will you get more in stock?

Inventory changes all the time. Message the shop to discuss details of your color request. Most requests can be accommodated if given enough time. 10 weeks is a good rule of thumb for the time needed to create a custom request.

How far in advance should I place an order?

The sooner you order, the more time there is for communication between the buyer and the designer. If time is limited, so are the choices.

Can I make changes to my order after I pay?

Yes, you can make some changes to your order during the process. After a purchase, you can adjust sizing and even color if needed. If shop can accommodate a request it will. It is our goal to provide excellent customer service along with a great product. We want you to love your purchase from The Vintage Vow.

Reviews (1)


The flannels are exactly what I wanted and she even sent me pictures to make sure all the colors were what I was looking for. I am totally in love with these and cannot wait to give them to my bridesmaids in December

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