Mismatched Bridesmaid Flannel Shirts, Bridal Party Button Down Shirt, Getting Ready, Vintage Flannels for Bridesmaid Robes, Wedding Flannel


Hello and welcome. The Vintage Vow is transitioning from custom curated sets to pre-made packages. Please visit the OUTLET sections of the shop to see a variety of ready to ship options at our lowest prices ever! As always, don't hesitate to send us a message if you have questions.

I pride myself in being the originator of bridesmaid flannels. Many have copied (or tried too). All the while, I have remained true to my mission statement and refuse to source outside the U.S.A. or compromise quality. Due to the changes in 2020, sourcing has become more challenging and I have chosen to change the business model of The Vintage Vow. All items will continue to be sourced locally however, I will no longer be doing customizable sets. Instead, I will curate sets based on my experience of what buyers are looking for and have them ready to go in the OUTLET sections of the shop. This also allows me to bring my costs down and pass along the savings to customers. You can now browse by size and bundle listings to create your perfect set. Keep in mind that each set is a one-of-a-kind which means that once it sells it is gone for good.

The Vintage Vow still happily offers youth sizes as a customization to any set!

Wedding flannels are all the rage! Order your tribe a set of bridesmaid flannel shirts to wear while you get photo ready for your Wedding Day. Cozy cotton flannel shirts have button-down front making them the ultimate getting ready shirts. Give your girls a gift they will appreciate and find comfort in again and again. Don't get caught up in the corny wording and labels that other shops are offering on their shirts. Sure it may be cute for a day, but your girls won't wear it ever again if it has "bridesmaid" written across the back. Why pay for a "one day" gift when you can buy them something they will actually love and use for years to come.

Our mismatched sets are truly one of a kind. Each shirt is processed with a unique weathered and worn finish creating a vintage look and feel. Each set varies and yours will be unique to your choices. You will receive photos during the process and have the opportunity to work directly with designers by providing feedback and requests to create your set to your liking. Every order is confirmed with a photo before shipping.

-select your color choice from drop down menu
-select size choice
-chose quantity of that color and size
-add to cart
-repeat for each size
-leave wedding date and any special requests in the NOTES at checkout

-Custom sets are made to order based on buyer requests.
-Number of shirts in set determined by quantity selected
-No two shirts in a set are the same.
-Price is per shirt.
-Shirts are worn-in cotton.
-100% sourced in USA.
-Photo confirmation prior to shipping.
-Processing time is 8-10 weeks.
-Rush option available for additional fee. Message to request.
-Shipping via USPS Priority and FEDEX
-Free standard US shipping offered on orders of $200 or more
*All flannel varies. Vintage shirts may show wear such as fading, pilling, or other minor imperfections. We inspect every item for quality and each shirt must meet our high standards. Any shirt that does not meet our vintage quality control will either not be used or offered at discount.

-Boyfriend Fit are unisex flannel shirts.
-NIGHTSHIRT style is longer and quite oversized.
-Sizing varies slightly by shirt.

-All images are actual sets by The Vintage Vow
-photo copyright of the credited photographers
-Photo credits:
photo1: Bridal party in red by Fab Fotography @FabFoto
photo2: Bridal party in jewel tones by Chris Carter Photography
photo3: Bridal party in blue by Makenzie Hollar @mekenziephotography
photo4: Bridal party in purple
photo5: Bridal party in green by JH Photographers
photo6: Bridal party in blue
photo7: Bridal party in pink/purple by Barbara Coldiron Photography
photo8: The Vintage Vow
photo9: The Vintage Vow
photo10: The Vintage Vow

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Shipping from United States

Processing time

3-5 business days

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I don't accept returns, exchanges, or cancellations

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

Frequently Asked Questions

RUSH FEE details for RUSH orders

RUSH FEE is non-refundable and must be approved by shop prior to purchase. Fee is in addition to item and shipping charges. This option is for custom orders needed in less than 4 weeks. Message shop if you need a Rush order.

Do you offer embroidery or monogram on the shirts? If not, can I have it done elsewhere?

These are top quality vintage flannels and they are intended to be loved and worn long after the wedding day. In my experience, I have found that your bridal party actually prefers to receive shirts without any kind of label or wording. These are not a "throw away gift" or "one use only gift." Therefore, I do NOT offer any type of embroidery or monogramming.

If you absolutely must have them personalized or monogrammed you can take them to your local monogramming company and have it done there.

Do you offer a discount on large quantities?

The Vintage Vow offers a variety of products at different price points as well as special promotions and/or sales throughout the year. We do not currently offer a discount on quantity or bulk orders. If you are military message me for current offers.

You are sold out of the color I want. When will you get more in stock?

Inventory changes all the time. Message the shop to discuss details of your color request. Most requests can be accommodated if given enough time. 10 weeks is a good rule of thumb for the time needed to create a custom request.

How far in advance should I place an order?

The sooner you order, the more time there is for communication between the buyer and the designer. If time is limited, so are the choices.

Can I make changes to my order after I pay?

Yes, you can make some changes to your order during the process. After a purchase, you can adjust sizing and even color if needed. If shop can accommodate a request it will. It is our goal to provide excellent customer service along with a great product. We want you to love your purchase from The Vintage Vow.

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE! Received the shirts today!!! 😃👏🏻 I can’t wait to send you a pic with the bride and the bridal party in them! 🥰 Thank you for going ABOVE and BEYOND helping us out with these!!!

I bought 5 of these shirts as gifts for my bridesmaids, and they are awesome!! They are so incredibly soft, they fit perfectly, and the colors are exactly what I wanted. Jessica is an absolute dear - she worked (very patiently) with me to help me find exactly what I wanted. Seriously - I was super difficult, changing my mind, asking for rare colors and patterns, and she found it. Definitely worth the wait. I'll absolutely be using her again in the future.

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