Bridal Party Flannel Shirt, Bridesmaid Button Down Shirts, Wedding Flannels, Made to Order bridesmaid flannel getting ready shirt


Welcome! Please read for an update to shop news! The Vintage Vow is transitioning from custom curated sets to pre-made packages. Please visit the OUTLET sections of the shop to see a variety of ready to ship options at our lowest prices ever! As always, don't hesitate to send us a message if you have questions.

I pride myself in being the originator of bridesmaid flannels. Many have copied (or tried too). All the while, I have remained true to my mission statement and refuse to source outside the U.S.A. or compromise quality. Due to the changes in 2020, sourcing has become more challenging and I have chosen to change the business model of The Vintage Vow. All items will continue to be sourced locally however, I will no longer be doing customizable sets. Instead, I will curate sets based on my experience of what buyers are looking for and have them ready to go in the OUTLET sections of the shop. This also allows me to bring my costs down and pass along the savings to customers. You can now browse by size and bundle listings to create your perfect set. Keep in mind that each set is a one-of-a-kind which means that once it sells it is gone for good.

The Vintage Vow still happily offers youth sizes as a customization to any set!

Kimono robes are out and cozy vintage flannels are in. Give your girls the gift that keeps on giving. Flannel shirts are something they will actually love and wear again and again.

These are boyfriend fit for casual comfort and should be worn with bottoms. We recommend favorite jeans, cutoff shorts, or leggings to complete the look. Our mismatched flannel sets are truly one of a kind. Each shirt is processed with a unique weathered and worn finish creating a vintage look and feel. Each shirt varies and yours will be unique to your choices. You will receive photos during the process and have the opportunity to work directly with designers by providing feedback and requests to create your set to your liking. Every order is confirmed with a photo before shipping.

-Custom sets are made to order based on buyer request
-Number of shirts in set determined by quantity selected
-No two shirts in a set are the same.
-Price is per shirt.
-Shirts are worn-in cotton.
-100% sourced in USA.
-Photo confirmation prior to shipping.
-Processing time is 8-10 weeks.
-Rush option available for additional fee. Message to request.
-Shipping via USPS Priority and FEDEX
*All flannel varies. Vintage shirts may show wear such as fading, pilling, or other minor imperfections. Any shirt that does not meet our vintage quality control will either not be used or offered at discount.

-select your color choice from drop down menu
-select size choice
-chose quantity of that color and size
-add to cart
-repeat for each size

-Sizing varies slightly by shirt.
-NIGHTSHIRT style is longer and quite oversized.
-Boyfriend Fit are unisex flannel shirts. Use chart below to order boyfriend fit.










-All images are actual sets by The Vintage Vow
-Photo credits:
Photo 1: Jennifer Yarbro Photography
Photo 2: Chris Carter Photography
Photo 3: Andrew Austin Photography
Photo 4: Cotton Collective
Photo 5: unknown
Photo 6: unknown
Photo 7: Jordan Noble at Be Noble Photography
Photo 8: Jennifer Yarbro Photography
Photo 9: The Vintage Vow
Photo 10: The Vintage Vow

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Shipping from United States

Processing time

3-5 business days

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I don't accept returns, exchanges, or cancellations

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

Frequently Asked Questions

RUSH FEE details for RUSH orders

RUSH FEE is non-refundable and must be approved by shop prior to purchase. Fee is in addition to item and shipping charges. This option is for custom orders needed in less than 4 weeks. Message shop if you need a Rush order.

Do you offer embroidery or monogram on the shirts? If not, can I have it done elsewhere?

These are top quality vintage flannels and they are intended to be loved and worn long after the wedding day. In my experience, I have found that your bridal party actually prefers to receive shirts without any kind of label or wording. These are not a "throw away gift" or "one use only gift." Therefore, I do NOT offer any type of embroidery or monogramming.

If you absolutely must have them personalized or monogrammed you can take them to your local monogramming company and have it done there.

Do you offer a discount on large quantities?

The Vintage Vow offers a variety of products at different price points as well as special promotions and/or sales throughout the year. We do not currently offer a discount on quantity or bulk orders. If you are military message me for current offers.

You are sold out of the color I want. When will you get more in stock?

Inventory changes all the time. Message the shop to discuss details of your color request. Most requests can be accommodated if given enough time. 10 weeks is a good rule of thumb for the time needed to create a custom request.

How far in advance should I place an order?

The sooner you order, the more time there is for communication between the buyer and the designer. If time is limited, so are the choices.

Can I make changes to my order after I pay?

Yes, you can make some changes to your order during the process. After a purchase, you can adjust sizing and even color if needed. If shop can accommodate a request it will. It is our goal to provide excellent customer service along with a great product. We want you to love your purchase from The Vintage Vow.

Working with The Vintage Vow was by far the easiest experience. I came to get with a big request for 10 people for my wedding and she worked with me and kept me updated at all times. Just got my flannels yesterday and opened them today and IM IN LOVE.

Jessica is such a gem. I am so pleased with my order and she was so responsive with each message I sent her. She hand selects high quality, stylish, and vintage shirts that complement each other well (all colors are in the same shade/color scheme). She went above and beyond for my order. She’s one of the best Etsy sellers I have purchased from!

I got these for myself and my bridesmaids for my wedding, 5 total. 4 of them are pictured in the photo (my mom's was not part of the set she just wanted to fit in :) ). I had to crop the photo so the last shirt isn't shown but was also amazing. I can't recommend this enough. Jessica was great to work with. She was very responsive the whole time, and worked hard to make sure I was completely happy with the final set of shirts. This was such a fun but also re-usable gift to give the girls, and it fit perfectly with my fall themed wedding. I love to rewear mine around the house now and think about that amazing day! In case its helpful for anyone else the sizes from left to right (skipping mom) were: XS, L, L, M. The fit is oversize on all of them (which is as Jessica said it would be).

Rush shipped with no problems. My girls and I loved the comfy good fit flannels!

Jessica was amazing to work with and the flannels are of great quality. She folded them, packaged them neatly and even labeled the flannels for me so I could give them to the right bridesmaid/man in my party. I absolutely LOVED how my flannel turned out with the patchwork on the back with my soon-to-be new last name. Thank you so much for everything and I can't wait to give these out and wear them on our wedding day! :)

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