Purple Flannel Shirt, bridesmaid flannel, bridesmaid button down shirts, BERRY SWEET PEA Bridesmaid robes in ultra violet, pink, plum, berry


Hey lovely people, Welcome! The Vintage Vow is transitioning from custom curated sets to pre-made packages. Please visit the OUTLET sections of the shop to see a variety of ready to ship options at our lowest prices ever! As always, don't hesitate to send us a message if you have questions.

I pride myself in being the originator of bridesmaid flannels. Many have copied (or tried too). All the while, I have remained true to my mission statement and refuse to source outside the U.S.A. or compromise quality. Due to the changes in 2020, sourcing has become more challenging and I have chosen to change the business model of The Vintage Vow. All items will continue to be sourced locally however, I will no longer be doing customizable sets. Instead, I will curate sets based on my experience of what buyers are looking for and have them ready to go in the OUTLET sections of the shop. This also allows me to bring my costs down and pass along the savings to customers. You can now browse by size and bundle listings to create your perfect set. Keep in mind that each set is a one-of-a-kind which means that once it sells it is gone for good.

The Vintage Vow still happily offers youth sizes as a customization to any set!

Your girls will be stunning in this brilliant and bold collection of bridesmaid flannel shirts. Introducing The Berry Sweet Pea Collection featuring our unique vintage over-dyed finish that creates a distressed and aged look in various pink and purple tones. Flannel shirts make perfect gifts for your bridesmaids. These shirts are soft cotton and so comfy for getting hair and make up ready.

Our mismatched sets are truly one of a kind. Custom sets are made to order and based on buyer requests. Each shirt is processed with a unique weathered and worn finish creating a vintage look and feel. Each set varies and yours will be unique to your choices. You will receive photos during the design process and have the opportunity to work directly with designers by providing feedback and requests to create your set to your liking. Every order is confirmed with a photo before shipping.

-Custom sets are made to order based on buyer requests.
-Number of shirts in set determined by quantity selected
-No two shirts in a set are the same.
-Price is per shirt.
-Shirts are worn-in cotton.
-100% sourced in USA.
-Photo confirmation prior to shipping.
-Processing time is 8-10 weeks.
-Rush option available for additional fee. Message to request.
-Shipping via USPS Priority and FEDEX
*All flannel varies. Vintage shirts may show wear such as fading, pilling, or other minor imperfections. We inspect every item for quality and each shirt must meet our high standards. Any shirt that does not meet our vintage quality control will either not be used or offered at discount.

-Sizing varies slightly by shirt.
-NIGHTSHIRT style is longer and quite oversized.
-Boyfriend Fit are unisex flannel shirts. Use chart below to order boyfriend fit.

XS: 30-32

SM: 34-36

MD: 38-40

LG: 42-44

XL: 46-48

2X: 50-52

3X: 54-56

4X: 57+

-select your color choice from dropdown
-select size
-chose quantity of selected color/size
-add to cart
-repeat for each size

-All images are actual sets by The Vintage Vow
-copyright of The Vintage Vow
-Photo credits:
Bridal party in mixed berry blend by Barbara Coldiron Photography
Bridal party doing toast by Bryan Avigne @bryanavigne

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Shipping from United States

Processing time

3-5 business days

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I don't accept returns, exchanges, or cancellations

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

Frequently Asked Questions

RUSH FEE details for RUSH orders

RUSH FEE is non-refundable and must be approved by shop prior to purchase. Fee is in addition to item and shipping charges. This option is for custom orders needed in less than 4 weeks. Message shop if you need a Rush order.

Do you offer embroidery or monogram on the shirts? If not, can I have it done elsewhere?

These are top quality vintage flannels and they are intended to be loved and worn long after the wedding day. In my experience, I have found that your bridal party actually prefers to receive shirts without any kind of label or wording. These are not a "throw away gift" or "one use only gift." Therefore, I do NOT offer any type of embroidery or monogramming.

If you absolutely must have them personalized or monogrammed you can take them to your local monogramming company and have it done there.

Do you offer a discount on large quantities?

The Vintage Vow offers a variety of products at different price points as well as special promotions and/or sales throughout the year. We do not currently offer a discount on quantity or bulk orders. If you are military message me for current offers.

You are sold out of the color I want. When will you get more in stock?

Inventory changes all the time. Message the shop to discuss details of your color request. Most requests can be accommodated if given enough time. 10 weeks is a good rule of thumb for the time needed to create a custom request.

How far in advance should I place an order?

The sooner you order, the more time there is for communication between the buyer and the designer. If time is limited, so are the choices.

Can I make changes to my order after I pay?

Yes, you can make some changes to your order during the process. After a purchase, you can adjust sizing and even color if needed. If shop can accommodate a request it will. It is our goal to provide excellent customer service along with a great product. We want you to love your purchase from The Vintage Vow.

Reviews (9)


My daughter wanted these for her bridesmaids to have hair and make up done in and then for photos after. They were perfect--they fit right and she worked with us to get the colors everyone wanted. Everyone loved the weight of them and the feel. Definitely a great buy and a wonderful person to work with on the ordering and fits. Thank you so much!

My daughter wanted these for her bridesmaids to have hair and make up done in and then for photos after. They were perfect--they fit right and she worked with us to get the colors everyone wanted. Everyone loved the weight of them and the feel. Definitely a great buy and a wonderful person to work with on the ordering and fits. Thank you so much!

I am so happy with my bridesmaid flannel shirts! I ordered 4, and I was allowed to approve them before being shipped. They are super soft and great quality, and ready to wear! I love them! They do take a while to make so just make sure you order with plenty of time! It’s worth it!

Jessica did a great job of accommodating my late request with perfect flannels to match my wedding colors. She dyed them that week and rush shipped them out for me. They were comfortable (I wore mine for the following two days including my flight to Jamaica) and fit true to size for boyfriend flannels. No mistake - your money is well spent!

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